And even if you’re not their manager, your support could be exactly what helps them pull up before things get worse. The challenge? Knowing what to say. You don’t want to overstep, make it awkward, or get it wrong. So here’s how to check in in a way that’s human, helpful, and respectful.
They’re your star employee. The one you trust. The one everyone leans on. And they might be burning out in silence. In many workplaces, the people who seem the most “together” are often the ones quietly struggling the most. Here’s why.
A belief that you’re not allowed to struggle.
That leaders must be resilient, composed, always calm—even when they’re burning out behind the scenes. But here’s the truth: you’re human first, leader second. And the moment you allow yourself to say, “I’m not doing great right now,” you create space for others to do the same.
Burnout isn’t a buzzword—it’s real, rising, and reshaping the way we think about leadership in Australian workplaces. We know how it shows up: exhaustion, cynicism, poor performance, disengagement. What we talk about less is what happens after. After someone’s hit the wall. After they take leave. After they return, quieter than before.
Why early intervention is the best strategy you’ve got
Burnout doesn’t always arrive with fanfare. It creeps in quietly—behind polite smiles, endless meetings, and “I’m just busy” emails. And by the time someone finally breaks down, checks out, or hands in their resignation? It’s already too late. But what if we could spot it sooner?
We worry we’ll say the wrong thing, overshare, or make someone uncomfortable. But here’s the truth: mental health is already in the room. Whether we’re talking about it or not, it’s affecting how we show up every single day.
So how do we start having these conversations in a way that feels natural, respectful, and not weird?
Let’s walk through it—gently, together.
Work stress isn’t just “part of the job” anymore. It’s become a daily reality for many, and it’s affecting more than just how we feel—it’s reshaping how we work, how we show up, and how we connect with the world around us. As we continue to push through packed calendars, endless emails, and high expectations, we have to pause and ask: What is the cost of constantly running on empty?
